A Woman Snatched My Girlfriend – Uzor Arukwe

Nollywood actor, Uzor Arukwe has come out to recount how he lost a girl he used to date many years ago to another woman.

He recently had his say while speaking to the press, and fans have been reacting.

According to him, the woman he was dating simply fell in love with another woman, and he did not know how to confront the other woman about it because she was not a guy.

Uzor added that the experience affected his relationship with other women after that since he began to think every other girl was into women too.

His words, “We were dating and she fell in love with another woman. I could see what the girl was doing to her and she was telling me ‘Babe, are you seeing what this girl is doing?’ and I was like ‘Yeah’. Then my girl goes to the loo. The girl follows my babe and my girl comes out and she rushes back and she was like ‘This girl tried to kiss me in the bathroom” and I was like ’Did you kiss her back?’ and she was like ‘No!’. But I could tell it was a new experience for her. It was fresh.

The girl came back, she was feminine. She wasn’t really a stud. She was a woman and she had done this too many times and she knew that that girl was going to fall for her because she came back and she looked at me d#ad in the eye and she was like ‘Hi, what’s up? Can I get a drink?”. She was very confident. She wasn’t a guy and so I wasn’t going to accost her and ask what are you doing with my girl.

I just thought it was nonsense and that this was going to d!e on arrival. Two weeks down the line, I saw two of them talking more and more on the phone, giggling…The next thing I heard was I am going to spend the weekend with this girl and I am like what about me? She was like she had been with me since and that she was like she just wanted to go and spend a harmless holiday with this girl. And that was it. After that holiday, the next thing I started seeing was ‘the way I screamed’, ‘the way you did this’, and ‘you finished me’ We just started having a lot of arguments about it.

I felt very…if it was a guy, we fit throw blow…I would hardly fight for a woman unless it’s worth it but I mean if it was a guy, I would have accosted him and said that’s my girl, what are you doing with my girl? What am I going to tell her? I would go and tell a girl to leave my woman alone? I didn’t know how to go about it.

For the longest time, I couldn’t talk to girls because If I saw a girl, I would assume that they were dating. I just didn’t like them. I was weary of them because it hit home. It hit my core.”

WOW.

Nollywood is a sobriquet that originally referred to the Nigerian film industry. The origin of the term dates back to the early 2000s, traced to an article in The New York Times. Due to the history of evolving meanings and contexts, there is no clear or agreed-upon definition for the term, which has made it a subject to several controversies.

The origin of the term “Nollywood” remains unclear; Jonathan Haynes traced the earliest usage of the word to a 2002 article by Matt Steinglass in the New York Times, where it was used to describe Nigerian cinema.

Charles Igwe noted that Norimitsu Onishi also used the name in a September 2002 article he wrote for the New York Times. The term continues to be used in the media to refer to the Nigerian film industry, with its definition later assumed to be a portmanteau of the words “Nigeria” and “Hollywood”, the American major film hub.

Film-making in Nigeria is divided largely along regional, and marginally ethnic and religious lines. Thus, there are distinct film industries – each seeking to portray the concern of the particular section and ethnicity it represents. However, there is the English-language film industry which is a melting pot for filmmaking and filmmakers from most of the regional industries.