Dating Won’t Make You Know Everything About Your Partner, Only Marriage Will – Solomon Buchi

Self-acclaimed life coach, Solomon Buchi has come out to say that couples can never know themselves too well before marriage.

He recently had his say in a post shared on X, and Nigerians have been reacting.

According to him, the reality is that no matter how long a couple date, they can never know each other too well until they commit themselves to matrimony.

Buchi added that a decade of dating changes nothing, and your partner will still hide things from you till you become one.

His words, “You can never know your partner too well before marriage. No matter how long you date, marriage will shock you. You’ll see sides to them that you never saw in your 10 years of dating. I understand trying to spend long years to know someone before marriage, but getting married requires a level of FAITH. It requires a little bit of uncertainty; after all, is life itself not uncertain? Even in marriage, your partner evolves per stage. Who they were before childbirth is different from who they’ll be after childbirth. Stop dating for too long because you want to know the person well; marriage will teach you how much you don’t know them, and why you should patiently study them. Please, just marry and face the dynamic reality of marriage. It’s a consistent learning curve.”

WOW.