He recently had his say via his social media page, and fans have been reacting.
According to him, the reality is that despite parents sometimes saying very hurtful things to their kids in times of anger, it does not make them any less of a parent to their kids.
Barrister Ebike added that the fact is that a man can be a bad husband, but it doesn’t automatically translate to him being a bad father too.
His words, “Some of us, our parents (particularly our fathers) have been more critical to us and said some really hurtful things to us.
But that does not make our fathers “bad fathers”.
I have always said that a man can be a bad husband but not necessarily a bad father.
Because your father said you won’t make it as a musician now automatically make your father a bad person.
Imagine people who their father wanted to study Engineering and they end up studying something less enterprising.
I remember when my Lecturer made a joke about a very big Lawyers son who was sent to study law but was doing music in school without the knowledge of his parents.
Because your father is critical about your career path doesn’t make him a bad father.
Your father should be the only person capable of telling you the hard truth.
If your father say Don Jazzy will not sign you, use it as your motivation. Afterall, even Solo say Wizkid no go blow.
The fact that you now live with your mother and can openly throw your father under the bus shows how much of a character flaw your mother has.
Imagine as a man, you are being told to provide for a child who disrespects you this much.
This is what a lot of men are facing from their baby mama who they are not married to.
These women make these children hate their father to the point the man doesn’t even fancy taking care of the children.
The world will not see that part.
It will only see a man who has resources but refuse to cater for his children.
Never allow your children or use your children to fight proxy war with your partner.
It’s unhealthy. Learnor perish.”
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