Ways to deal with a womanizing boyfriend

Posted by: b3rrilyn in GIST May 24, 2013

You cheated on me

Do you think that your boyfriend is crossing the line of healthy flirting with other women?�Just because�he was popular with women before he met you, does not mean that he has the right to carry the same habits once he is in a relationship with you.

Here are some effective ways to deal with the womanizing behavior of your boyfriend.

1. Identify specific instances of his womanizing behavior

You will never be able to prove your point unless you confront your boyfriend with proof about specific instances of his womanizing ways. The best way to confront him is to keep a note of all the times you noticed his womanizing ways. When you confront him, list out these specific examples so that you have enough substance to accuse him of being a�womanizer.

2. Give him a warning when you confront him

There is no point in confronting your boyfriend if you don’t give him a stern warning for his womanizing ways. Let it be very clear to him that you are well aware of his behavior and you will not tolerate with any of it. You can give him an ultimatum and warn him that you will consider breaking off the relationship if he does not stop being a womanizer.

3. Flirt with someone to give him a taste of his own medicine

If talking to your boyfriend calmly and having a conversation with him does not work, try to make him realize how bad you feel by flirting with someone in front of him. Set up a situation where you can flirt with a guy when your boyfriend is with you. When he confronts you about your behavior, just tell him that this is exactly how you feel when he flirts with other women. Being at the receiving end of the pain and hurt may open his eyes and make him stop being a womanizer.

4. Walk away and pretend to break up if he breaks his promise once

If you find that your boyfriend is still showing signs of being a womanizer even after you served him a warning, pretend that you are thinking of breaking up with him. Do this only if he is actually remorseful of his behavior and pleads for another chance. Use this trump card very carefully because it can create two situations. Either he will do everything he can to stop being a womanizer and prove his love for you, or he will assume that you have seriously broken up with him and�never look back.

5. Give him one last chance and be ready to call off the relationship

The is the time when you have no other choice but to make a life changing decision, whether you want to break up with your boyfriend if he does not stop his flirty behavior. If you decide that you have had enough, give him one final chance to mend his ways. Be ready to call it quits in your relationship if the results do not work in your favor, because there is no looking back after you give him a�last chance. If you take him back even after your ultimatum, he will take you for granted and continue being a womanizer.